45 And charity suffereth long, and is kind, and envieth not, and is not puffed up, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil, and rejoiceth not in iniquity but rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
So often as I begin to study this scripture, I zone out by the third descriptive word. My professor actually stopped us mid-verse and asked us how many of us had stopped listening, and it was a large group of the class. He asked us to consider the significance of this verse when we no longer see it just as a description of the intangible virtue of charity. He told us to read it as a description of Christ.
Christ suffereth long and is kind. As we picture him in the Garden and on the cross, how can this ever be denied?
Christ envieth not, and is not puffed up. I think of when he was lowly enough to wash the feet of his disciples. Christ was not after material goods or station. He was happy to serve and minister.
Christ seeketh not his own. This attribute can be seen in his immortal words, "If thou be willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not as I will, but thine be done."
Christ is not easily provoked. I think of when Christ so lovingly said to the woman caught in adultery, "Neither do I condemn thee. Go, and sin no more." Christ was so loving and patient, rebuking only when he deemed it necessary. When possible, he showed mercy and love.
And on it goes. Christ thinketh no evil, He rejoiceth not in our iniquity by rejoiceth in the truth, beareth all things (in a way no other man ever could), believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
Suddenly, we aren't just seeing the word "charity" with no true image. We see Christ. And if we are to become like Christ, this is the image we should be seeing and following. It's not about being perfect, at least not yet. That is the end goal, but God knows that I can't reach that today. But today, I can learn to cast away envy. He knows that I can be kind. He knows that I can choose not to be provoked. He knows that I can endure the trials placed on my shoulders today. And I know I can.
And so can you. As this study of the Book of Mormon comes to a close, recognize that everything has been meant to direct you to Him. He will accept you lovingly and sanctify you to do something greater than you could do alone. Even if perfection isn't achieved today, you can take a step there. Be kind. Let go of envy. Choose hope. Seek not for yourself but for others. Charity is Christ, and if you become charitable, you are becoming as Christ.